low tide (original poster new member #86539) posted at 1:50 PM on Friday, October 3rd, 2025
I am in trouble and need help. Don't know where to turn.
Evio ( member #85720) posted at 2:41 PM on Friday, October 3rd, 2025
Low tide - have you got someone in real life to talk to right now?
If not, I'm here, please rant away, I will listen.
Me: BW 43 Him: WH 47
DD:16.01.25
2 Year PA/Sexting 13 years ago
Reconciling
"The darkest nights make the brightest stars" 🌌 ✨
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:25 PM on Friday, October 3rd, 2025
Call 988 or go to their website because it has links to chat or text.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
DayByDay96 ( new member #86550) posted at 3:55 PM on Friday, October 3rd, 2025
Are you okay? What’s going on?
Me - WW, 28
BH - 53
DDay - July 15th, 2025
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:05 PM on Friday, October 3rd, 2025
Call anyone you can, and 988 and if there is no one else. Or post here. We’re here- we hear you.
And remember — you can get through this. It sucks like nothing else, but you are stronger than you know. We’ve been there and we know how bad it is AND that you will get through it. Hang in there.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 4:50 AM on Sunday, October 5th, 2025
LowTide,
As you can see you do not have to struggle with this daunting stuff all alone. Turn to us and keep reaching out and we will reach back to you. It is tempting to isolate at moments like this. Please, try not to. You don’t have to carry this burden alone. Most of us are or have gone through the many crises that infidelity causes, you are not alone.
Asterisk
Wedding:1973
WW's Affair: 1986-1988
D-Day: June 1991
Reconciliation in process for 32 years
Living in a marriage and with a wife that I am proud of: 52 years
Muggle ( member #62011) posted at 10:00 PM on Tuesday, October 7th, 2025
LowTide
Breathe, then breathe again. It may feel like the air is out of your lungs, and nothing makes sense, but take it one day, one hour or one minute at a time.
We've all felt this soul sucking feeling, and we can help you get through it.
Trust that we understand, and hear you and will listen.
Let us know you're ok.
