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OM died. Was my reaction out of line?

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:16 AM on Sunday, October 5th, 2025

Hmm. I am team asparagus before the big pee laugh

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 2:19 AM on Sunday, October 5th, 2025

Unhinged...

No, I don't think you're being an asshole. In fact, I hope you can find the grave and enjoy a nice, long stinky pee

This made me spit my Coke on my computer screen. laugh

Now that I think about it....

I would suggest that he drinks 2 or 3 Cokes.

They give a good effervescence to the long stinky pee.

And asparagus. Lots of asparagus will give your pee that little extra pungent aroma. grin

[This message edited by Pogre at 2:19 AM, Sunday, October 5th]

Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?

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Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 2:21 AM on Sunday, October 5th, 2025

Hmm. I am team asparagus before the big pee laugh


Beat me to it! Lol.

Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:22 PM on Tuesday, October 7th, 2025

I would be very angry that my wife was so concerned about his death that she was stupid enough to bring it up to you.

Some people just don’t know when to keep their mouth shut.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 2:51 PM on Tuesday, October 7th, 2025

Even if she was foolish enough to open her mouth about OM's death, she should've at least had the brains to keep it shut after your response.

Perhaps the biggest impediment to a happy relationship with your wife isn't her lack of remorse but her utter stupidity.

[This message edited by BluerThanBlue at 2:52 PM, Tuesday, October 7th]

BW, 40s

Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried

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