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I've been on SI for close to ten years now.

To me, SI is like a cocoon that is super BS friendly.

Here at SI we don't laugh at anyone's A's.

We don't blame the BS for not meeting the WS's needs.

We don't blame the BS for missing signs that the A is going on .

ETC. etc.

These recent A's in the news sadly proves that the world outside of SI is BS unfriendly.

This is the Steve Smith A.

The BS , Tony, got assailed mercilessly for filming the confrontation between himself and Steve Smith and exposing the A online.

Tons of people mocked that Tony shouldn't of exposed the A so publicly because the wife cheated on Tony because Tony wasn't meeting the "wife's needs".

The kiss cam incident left the whole internet laughing for months.

The kiss cam incident made NBC new's 2025 cultural moments review.

Now, the internet is laughing at Sherrone Moore.

Sherrone's wife , Kelli, is catching heat because she didn't find out about the two year affair sooner.

Sad unfriendly world for BS's outside of SI

[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 5:28 PM, Wednesday, December 17th]

So sad....
I pray loyalty in marriage has a resurgence.

Years ago I watched the actress Ashley Judd walk onto a stage in a beautiful dress and looking like a dream. She opened her mouth and absolute filth came out. She then talked about being an actress and a Ky sports fan. All that foul language is what showed up on her computer every day. These were strangers whose vile language was used as abuse. There was no reason for it. These were strangers hiding behind a screen
I have watched reporters ask questions to get people stirred up. It makes money. Every time you look at a "news" site it earns it money.
Whatever generates money will always get negatives because other people respond.
Take what you read with a pinch of salt. In fact be aware enough not to look.

If the real world was more understanding of BS, I don't think online support would be as necessary.

Blameshifting is the cultural norm. Is SI right? Well I think so. Maybe society is right, but there is no way I could have healed if I took any amount of responsibility for my wife's affair.